happiness is coming because we will. selfish? I think not. everyone would want to be happy. i guess would be the right move if we try to find happiness, make it into our own happiness and make it a joy happiness of others as well. make it a perfect happiness.
but, there are many kinds of happiness that I see. happiness that makes others happy too, happiness for them selves and other people pretend to feel the happiness too, happiness making others feel jealous. and many kinds of happiness in this world and the most happiness that does not make other people happy too. therefore, I always said to achieve a happiness for yourself not because you are selfish.we are not in the wrong position.
indeed, happiness for us is not necessarily will be happiness for others . I was always aware of it, but I always believed that happiness will be the happiness for others as well. we talk about time. a time when people begin to understand our happiness, a time when other people would accept it with happy face, time where happiness will be ours completely.
my principles, if I'm happy people who love me will also be happy too. if happiness it was only for a while and make me hurt, I call it a risk. because life is running between happiness and risks. You want to be happy, get it. if not get it, accept the risk. if you do not try to get it, be prepared to be an unhappy person. simple
